I came across this blog recently being new to tumblr and I just have to say THANK YOU for creating this! I wish you all the best! Oh no shame to my stripper game…STRIPPER & PROUD! Like more of us should be :) Much Thanks and love, Avery My Response: - Violet <3
xilliannax: Sex work is real work and being an entertainer/performer ain’t easy. Lets not forget these facts!
*So would you like to give me a tip?* "Oh, yes,...
I’m seeing, here and in the comments on the original extras piece, a lot of...– Another insightful comment on extras, stripping, and criminalization from Evie (via marginalutilite) In the state of NY if you walk barefoot through a club, gesture for people to come to you, or openly ask for money, you can be arrested for solicitation (via four-minutes-forty-eight-seconds)
Note To Self
STOP DATING YOUR CUSTOMERS! BAD! BAD VIOLET! STOP IT! They will not end up in funny stories to tell your kids/friends later. They end up with a google search on how to file a restraining order in case the break up goes badly.
coquettish-ly replied to your post: I pole dance for the fitness aspect of it. I’m… Check youtube for any moves you want to learn. There are a ton of really great pole tutorials on there! Thanks! I recommend this to any girl who’s in my position where there’s no one to teach you, you’re low on money for classes, but still want to learn some moves while you have...
Anonymous asked: I pole dance for the fitness aspect of it. I'm curious about your work- what's a typical dance compose of? Do you incorporate many pole holds/poses? Or is it more about dancing?
getting so sick of having to constantly defend...
harlequinfairy: it’s such a shame people are still so ignorant about such a beautiful sport not everyone that pole dances is or will be a stripper, and it doesn’t always have to be sexual. sometimes i just wanna fly away to a land where no one’s prejudiced about anything and defend myself, my job, and my sport of choice and we can all be happy and eat lots of yummy stuff and nothing hurts
Anonymous asked: Hey I admire your blog so much! it excites me to read your stories and everything =) always love strong women <3 i am actually deciding to be a future dancer myself. I heard to always bring a pair of shoes during your tryout but idk where exactly would be a good place or website i can get them from any suggestions? would be a big help ! <3 thanks!
An Investment Or Waste?
When it comes to buying a new outfit, shoes, or anything related to dancing, the cost usually doesn’t matter due to the idea that it’s more of an investment to gain back 3x than was spent. But how do you know if it’s worth it? A friend of mine spent $13,000 on new breasts & liposuction Yet hasn’t made back 1/10th of what was spent. Next month I’m traveling to...
Square Is Being Used To Pay For Sex In Silicon... →
When you live in a place like Silicon Valley, you have to stay up-to-date with the latest technological innovations, no matter your profession. The sex workers in the mecca of tech have done just that. This technically doesn’t relate to stripping. However, I’m supporting the use of newer technology being introduced in the world of sex work, not matter what section...
Left the new club by midnight, Drunk off free shots of Cafe Patron with Bailey’s, (if you haven’t tried it, I strongly recommend it) With only $56 in my pocket. Uh…no, I don’t approve of this. I didn’t break out of retirement for enough to have a Dollar Tree shopping spree. I don’t like these new rules here, I’m not used to such strictness -__-‘ Edit: I made new friends, saw...
Stepping Back Into The Light
Yes, the title does not deceive you, I’m returning back into the blacklight! I’m pulling out the shoes, picking a new outfit, & heading up to Hartford to make my official comeback to the land of the dance. I’m nervous but excited all at the same time! <3 Click for more detailed story[[MORE]] If anyone cares to know how this all came about (since I know someone will...
When those cheap ass customers instantly ask 'So,...